For Those Who Want More out of Their Relationship
And to finally feel the LOVE and CONNECTION you deeply desire, even if
(and I'm talking about something WAY more effective than ‘better communication’)
A proven process that will take you from hurtful conflict to renewed, loving connection.
Keys you can start using today that will begin to heal the conflict within yourself AND in your relationship - even if your partner is NOT on board!
Finally, understand why you are really fighting - and the reason is not what you think it is!
A straightforward way that can help you TAKE CONTROL of your emotions - even when you feel angry and ready to lash out.
Uncover the obstacle that can make a resolution to a fight impossible - and how to overcome it in a surprisingly easy way.
Once opened, this secret has the potential to transform your relationship with yourself AND your partner when nothing else seems to work.
of the internal and external conflict you're experiencing is the MOST POWERFUL WAY
the hurtful distance that's grown between you ...
“I decided to join Vera’s 6-week relationship course since it was getting more difficult for me to handle conflicts with my partner even though we love and support each other. And the reasons for conflict would usually be absurd (at least they seem this way now) e.g. not throwing the trash, being too lazy to make a sandwich and asking another person to do it for you… The fight would escalate to the point where we would be angry even the next day. It's been eye-opening for me to learn in this course that the reasons behind the fights are completely different! Learning about the triggers and how by recognizing them we can not only discover the true source of our frustration but we can also de-escalate the conflict in the moment when it is happening was a real turning point for me. There are many great tools how we can calm ourselves down in the moment of a heated argument but for me, the best one and the one that I am using every time I’m in a similar situation is the time-out. Time-out gives us solo time to calm down, reflect and think so when we come back to revisit the disagreement we can resolve the conflict peacefully. I never thought it would be possible to actually deal with conflict in a way that felt empowering versus feeling so much hurt and pain. And one more thing, I took this course to learn how to deal with conflicts in my romantic relationship but ended up learning how to deal with conflicts in all types of relationships, with my parents, my sister, friends, colleagues, even strangers. Highly recommend!”
Chances are, you know exactly what I mean. And usually, these types of fights don’t even mean anything, yet they seem to be stuck on repeat. You might even find yourself getting angry BEFORE the fight even happens because you know your partner is going to do the same exact thing!
Take the dishes as an example.
You walk in and see dishes in the sink and have an internal blow-up about it - and you either simmer about it for hours or you come right out and confront your partner.
I mean, it will only take them one minute to actually put their dishes in the dishwasher!
Or the toilet seat.
Or even the BIG things like money and kids.
And once you learn to recognize and break free from these patterns, I promise you that you and your intimate relationship will never be the same again.
You can keep repeating these damaging patterns that push you further and further apart...
or you can learn better, more empowering approaches that will heal your conflict and pull you closer together!
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Struggling to keep the peace in your relationship
Feeling like fights blow up out of nowhere
Finding yourself drained by the constant, simmering frustration you feel inside
Drifting further and further apart from each other
Fearing the worst - a breakup, separation, or divorce
Just not happy with the way your relationship feels at this moment
“This most definitely raised my awareness and caused me to think differently about interpersonal relationships. Vera is very enthusiastic and knowledgeable.”
-Jonathan Sek
“Vera was outstanding. The content was very informative and saved our relationship from destruction. I would recommend this to anyone that is anywhere from stressed relationship to broken. You will not be disappointed. Thank you, Vera!”
-Melissa Carpenter
“Vera is skilled in bringing out the best in people. She acknowledges our humanness and our need to be wanted and loved. This is definitely a course where everyone in a relationship – whether recent or long-term – will discover new ways to communicate and value each other.”
-S & T
If you don’t already know me well, one of my biggest passions is working with people like you who desire to create deep and loving relationships – with yourself and others.
If you’re reading this, there’s a good chance that you’re experiencing the never-ending hamster wheel of life and every day starts to feel like a broken record. You may dread the fighting, the conflict, and the distance you’re feeling with your partner.
But here’s the thing…
You CAN have peace and happiness in your relationship and life. It’s honestly something you already have within you. And, I have been in your shoes and have experienced heart-wrenching conflict during a time I felt like I should have known better. I was getting my degree in counseling psychology and had to work through ways to forgive myself and my partner for years and years of hurt.
Fast forward to today, I’ve helped 100s of people heal their relationships - with themselves and others - with the same steps I took to heal myself.
That’s why I created this masterclass! I want to give you the tools and methods that actually work in creating a better and closer relationship.
Let me take you across the bridge from the unhealthy conflict and unmet needs to the compassionate and loving connection you so deeply desire and deserve.
And, I will be live three times!โค
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